Lifetime Commitment

Amador came into my life, it is for a REASON, to meet a need I have expressed in my heart.  He came to assist me through difficult times, provided me with guidance and support, to aid me physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. He may seem like a God send to me, and he was always there for me and my children.

People were/are there for a reason, you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will just say good bye to you to an end or sometimes without saying good bye…just like that, we feel numb and don’t know what to do. Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.  What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.  When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh and make you SMILE. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real!  But, only for a season and eventually ends. 

LIFETIME relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway), and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.

As I am celebrating my brand new life ahead:  I am formulating a mission statement, especially a personal one, this is not really easy, but once done, it gives one a sense of ownership, a guide to live by.

A mother of two wonderful blessings, Benjo and Winbie, a lifetime commitment.  A parent, friend, companion, mentor, support to mold each child from infancy to adulthood.  To guide and lead each child to become an upright citizen and worthy child of God.  To love with utter selflessness in all understanding, sympathy, forgiveness amidst the challenges of this changing world each moment, a pleasure, what joy!  My cup overflows and I am thankful I am the vehicle for them.  Time will come when I will face my creator to humbly say:  “Mission accomplish!”